Thinking Man

For Guys

So, you think she might be pregnant.

what you can do

Listen. The situation involves more than just you. There are now at least three lives to think about.

Stay Calm. She needs your support now more than ever.

Stay involved in the decision of the pregnancy. Running from a situation never solves the problem.

Talk about it - not only with each other but prepare to talk with parents and others close to the situation. Hiding the news from people who can genuinely help you only increases the stress.

 

Gather all the facts and seek wise counsel so you can make the best decision for both of you.

Express yourself honestly - it's normal to have feelings of anger, frustration and fear.

But make sure she knows she is not alone.

Breathe in and breathe out.